Tough love advice dating
“How many times have you heard people say they’ve found their soulmate?
Wait a few years and you may witness them finding another soulmate after the first one disappeared,” Hunter says.
“Instead of trying to rationalize your bad behavior, spend that time actually improving yourself and your life to the point where your worst is worth dealing with.” Having a life partner who loves everything you love might sound great, but there’s often more than meets the eye in these partnerships.
Relationships can be hard, and when we find ourselves at odds with our partners, we often seek out the advice of friends and family.
But not all of their warnings and so-called “wise words” should be heeded.
You are not a terrible person for wanting to break up with someone you love. It doesn’t mean you’re morally bankrupt or psychologically demented or a nymphomaniac. If you're in a terrible relationship and time and time again you continue going back and it affects your friends' lives because of this, they are going to inevitably get sick of constantly fucking dealing with your "I'm done with him, no I'm back with him, I'm done with him I hate him, no I'm back with him we're going to have a future, no I'm done with him" bullshit.
It means you wish to change the terms of one particular relationship. And you have no right to be upset with the people around you who stop giving a fuck.