The impact of emotionality and self disclosure on online dating
In one case, I did a Google image search and found a man’s profile picture featured on a site called “Romance Scams.” Apparently, not everyone looking for love and connection online wants to start from a place of truth and honesty.
Yet, as the show demonstrates to viewers, online lies can often be easy to detect, by searching for images and phone numbers and exploring social media profiles.
Also avoid people that disclose too much, whether it’s a recent staph infection, bankruptcy or bad breakup.
And Mc Dermott recommends steering clear of people who don’t have kids but use undue space in their profile soliciting information about the age and sex of your children.
And though deception doesn’t fit well with lasting romance, people lie all the time: Fewer than a third of people in one survey claimed they were always honest in online interactions, and nearly nobody expected others to be truthful.
Much of the time, lies are meant to make the person telling them seem better somehow – more attractive, more engaging or otherwise worth getting to know.
On the internet, you can become anyone you want to – at least for a while.But while online dating may be a great way to find your soul mate, you’ll be confronted with thousands of candidates.And, like many other online offerings, the "product" received may not always be what was advertised.It happens more than people might think – and to more people than might believe it.Many times in my own personal life when I was seeking to meet people online, I found that someone was being deceptive.