When you’re in a relationship, you get to do a lot of couple things together, be it in bed, at a party or while lazing at home. All of a sudden, you would have to force yourself into a whole new life whether you’re ready or not.Even if you’re in a relationship with someone else, you can’t help but compare your ex with your current partner now and then.You just finished talking to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, and the two of you had a great conversation.A flood of feelings and memories of good times with your ex came racing back to you.
If you’re contemplating over dating an ex, you really have to think of that adage, once bitten twice shy, and consider your options beyond that. In fact, it could actually help both partners understand the real value of the relationship. It doesn’t matter how many months or years have passed since your breakup.Most people confuse this kind of an attraction with love. [Read: Getting back with an ex for sex] Is it really love?The only reason you should ever get back with an ex is if you truly love them and find yourself shattered after the break up.And if your current partner lacks in a few departments when compared to your ex, you’d obviously feel a huge surge of renewed appreciation for your ex. You can’t really grab an ex wherever you want to, now that both of you have broken up.You may bump into an ex now and then, and the most you can do is admire how good they look, especially if they’re in someone else’s arms! ] Sex with an ex can be a rather tempting proposition, and the breakup may renew all the passion and sexual attraction that may have been lacking while you were in the relationship with you ex.